Parents' area
Parents' area
Take action to reduce runaways
Welcoming your young
Prepare
Your child's return can trigger strong emotional reactions, both from them and you. At this stage, a conversation is essential. This will allow you to better understand the reason for the runaway, identify possible solutions, and prevent a repeat of the situation.
It is therefore important to begin your reflection before your child returns from running away, in order to externalize your emotions and prevent them from taking over when you talk with him.
Consider possible solutions, your limitations, and the aspects you consider negotiable.
To welcome
When your child returns after running away, take the time to welcome them and decompress before starting a discussion.
Tell him you're relieved he's back, and give him basic care: a shower, a meal, and a night's sleep.
Take the time to communicate
Communication with your child is your greatest asset, but it requires the necessary time, space, and energy.
Don't rush the dialogue; it may even take place in several stages.
When you feel ready, here are some questions you can ask your child to help bring up the topic of running away:
How are you feeling right now?
What made you run away?
How did you experience your escape?
What did you learn during this?
What happened? Did you have any pleasant moments? Difficult ones?
Is there anything you want to tell me? Would you like to get help?
Make sure you are able to receive answers to the questions asked or be supported for this step.
Remember, there are resources that can help you
If you have difficulty talking to your child, you can suggest that they be accompanied by a third person who can facilitate communication.
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